stop walking on egg shells

Episode 14: Stop Walking on Egg Shells

In our families, parenting, spousal relationships, and as a society at large, we are allowing other people to manipulate us. It’s time we stop walking on egg shells and own our own personal responsibility in how we respond to people who make excuses, demand free stuff, or violate the rule of law to get their way.

This episode explores what it looks like when someone’s manipulating you and how to pull yourself out of the dynamic. It’s time we take responsibility for our part in these codependent relations and take responsibility for our own responses.

In many ways we collude with others to create unhealthy dynamics. When we change how we show up, the relationship can change or drop out of our lives.

Here’s a clip from the Andy Griffith show that I mention in my video. Here’s Opie and the Spoiled Kid:

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Must you make reparations for your family tree?

Episode 13: Reparations & The Sins of the Fathers

Are we responsible for the sins of our fathers? How far do you go back and make reparations? How do people prove that they are due reparations? What about people who have ancestors who were on both sides of situations that modern America deems offensive? Should our own individual contributions be nullified because of the sins of our fathers? In this episode, Marnie shares a little of her own family tree to illustrate how convoluted and impractical the reparations and accountability arguments really are.

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Common sense in an uncommon degree is what the world calls wisdom

Episode 12: What Is Common Sense Anyway?

What is common sense for some makes no sense to others. Each person comes to conclusions based on their core beliefs. We may think others are irrational but their views are quite rational when you root back to the fact that they have different fundamental beliefs than we do.

This episode of Front Porch Sense deals with the root cause of rifts happening between those with varying viewpoints. How can we ever have a civil discourse on sensitive topics? Is it even possible? And why bother?

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Episode 11: Betsy Ross Flag Nike Shoe

In this episode of Front Porch Sense, Marnie addresses Nike discontinuing the Betsy Ross Flag Nike shoe because Kaepernick was offended by it. Why do modern people disrespect the Founding Fathers and the sacrifices they made? Why are people so hopped up to judge people throughout history and each other? Marnie talks about the ingratitude, judgmental and hypocritical nature of modern America and why we need to step out of that and into gratitude to preserve freedom.

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Betsy Ross Flag - Gratitude for our Founding Fathers

Betsy Ross Flag and Gratitude for Founding Fathers

The Betsy Ross flag is supposedly a symbol of oppression now. I’m assuming this is because the Constitution was ratified with slavery still going on. The US Constitution motivated the states to eventually abolish slavery — that’s what the 3/5 of a person count for slaves was about. The states received representation based on population and by not letting slave states count their slaves as a full person, it motivated them to set the slaves free. The states wanted those representatives. Their say in government depended on it.

No, this was not ideal. The ideal would have been to end slavery from the get go, but the people of that time were not ready. If the US Constitution had not been ratified at that point, the fledgling nation would not have survived. Un-united, the states would have been subject to future attacks by England and other foreign powers.

It’s easy for us to look back and judge the past when we were not there. Yet I’d say our Founders could look forward on our day with equal disgust. They could easily judge us for other reasons… like a complete and utter disregard for the sacrifices made, a flippant attitude toward our divinely inspired Constitution, the atrocity of murdering millions of unborn children, and ingratitude for the blood spilled that we might enjoy freedom.

We often forget that the nation (set in motion in 1776) with its imperfections is the same country that fought the Civil War to set everyone free. Yes, white men actually fought and died and spilled their blood in gory battles that black men, women and children would no longer be enslaved. Think about that!

My ancestors fought for the Union (and they were Southerners) and hundreds of thousands gave their lives because the American ideal articulated in 1776 set in motion a wave of freedom that demanded the obvious… that ALL eventually be set free. Progress rarely happens in one fell swoop. It takes time to effect change.

The fact that we’ve reframed history to spit on the sacrifices made by our Founders and smear their character is indicative of an ungrateful, prideful populace. Let us be a little more understanding and grateful for what we have. Ingratitude leads to pride and pride goes before a fall.

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Are You Accepting Freedom or Rejecting Freedom

Episode 10: Are You Accepting or Rejecting Freedom?

Are you accepting or rejecting freedom in your life? Many of us are actually rejecting freedom without even realizing it. This episode is an exploration of why some people actually don’t want freedom and why many of us outright reject it. How can we truly embrace the freedoms available to us? What is the purpose of freedom in the end?

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Checks and Balances in the U.S. Constitution

Episode 9: Checks and Balances

We often think of the three branches of government as the checks and balances we have in the United States, but there are more checks and balances intrinsic in the U.S. Constitution.

This episode explores 3 additional important ones that we need to be protecting. All the checks and balances are under attack, but especially these three that people don’t talk about. Maintaining all the checks and balances the Founders put in place will protect our freedoms and increase the likelihood that our nation may endure.

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Abortion; Pro Life vs Pro Choice

Episode 8: Abortion

This episode addresses the right to life vs pro choice and what is happening in the world with abortion. How does the inalienable right to life relate to a woman’s right to choose? Are we asking the right questions when it comes to pro choice? What price are we paying for abortion?

For world abortion stats go there is a detailed report at Guttmacher.org.

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Front Porch Sense Episode 7: The Proper Role of Government

Episode 7: The Proper Role of Government

Today people are trained to turn to government to find solutions for nearly every challenge. Government is involved in everything from health care to education to redistribution of wealth.

How do we know what situations are appropriate for government intervention and which are not? In this video Marnie discusses the proper role of government.

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The example stories in this video are adapted from Ezra Taft Benson’s “The Proper Role of Government.”

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Pursuit of Happiness, Big Dreams and Entitlement

Episode 6: Big Dreams, The Pursuit of Happiness and Entitlement

What do big dreams and the pursuit of happiness have to do with entitlement? Very little! In this episode, Marnie explores why taking away challenges and giving people things for free diminishes their happiness and keeps them from becoming the people capable of achieving great things.

Let’s stop robbing people of their big dreams and the ability to pursue their own brand of happiness!

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